It’s been three weeks and I feel at home, mostly thanks to the wonderful expat community of Abuja.
It’s been intriguing to get to know people from so varied backgrounds. On Tuesday I went running with the director of UN’s development programme, yesterday had a beer with a British telecom consultant & American AIDS expert, tomorrow going to the swimming pool of the central bank director’s adviser and in the evening to the birthday party of a project officer of the Dutch Embassy. The expat community is a fascinating cut-through of a society, and after the five years at TKK, I couldn’t enjoy it more.
Before coming, I was thinking I would really want to immerse into the Nigerian society. And the more I was shocked during the first week to meet so many people who had arranged their life in Abuja to resemble their life back home as much as possible, and with the least possible interaction with the Nigerian reality. The Germans are probably the worst, with their own self-sufficient, guarded and fenced neighbourhood.
During the second and the third week I’ve learned that it’s really quite challenging to make Nigerian friends. The problem is that the Nigerians I meet casually either ask me to marry them, or at least to arrange a visa to Finland. So far I did not fall in love at first sight!
Fortunately I had a bit better experience last weekend. I went to the Gurara falls with these three great Nigerian girls who’ve studied here and who now work here. I was happy to hear their views to the Nigerian society and just have a normal chat. The expats just love sharing their experiences on Nigeria (mostly on the annoyances), but I’d rather hear it from the Nigerians.
So life’s good over here!